I like perfume that doesn’t smell like perfume. There are a lot of good ones. Hermes has a couple, Ambre Narguile and Brin de Reglisse. The men in my life have preferred the smell of soap and wouldn’t sleep in sheets that had a fragrance left by a softener. That was and is fine with me because I like to smell like clean sea, or sand, or fir like Christmas, or just warm bath. Sweet smells feel old on me, not sexy.